🚫 If You Feel Uncomfortable or It Crosses a Line:
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Withdraw your hand: A clear and immediate signal that you’re not okay with it.
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Speak up: A firm but respectful “Please don’t do that,” or “That made me uncomfortable,” is enough.
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Step away or redirect: If it feels too much, changing the topic or removing yourself from the situation is perfectly valid.
🤔 If You’re Unsure How to Feel:
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Ask directly: “Why did you do that?”—You deserve clarity.
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Pay attention to his tone and body language: Is he being playful, pushy, or respectful?
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Trust your gut: If something feels off, you’re not imagining it. Listen to that inner voice.
⚠️ One Last Thing:
You never owe anyone a certain kind of reaction—especially if it makes you uncomfortable. Your boundaries matter, and protecting them is a sign of strength, not rudeness.
Always lead with confidence and self-respect—you’re in control of your own space.